When `setWgengineStatus` is invoked concurrently from multiple
goroutines, it is possible that the call invoked with a newer status is
processed before a call with an older status. e.g. a status that has
endpoints might be followed by a status without endpoints. This causes
unnecessary work in the engine and can result in packet loss.
This patch adds an `AsOf time.Time` field to the status to specifiy when the
status was calculated, which later allows `setWgengineStatus` to ignore
any status messages it receives that are older than the one it has
already processed.
Updates tailscale/corp#2579
Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>